Should You Pierce Your Baby’s Ears? A No-Judgment Guide for Moms
- Stevie.
- Jul 15
- 2 min read
If you're here, you're probably asking the age-old (and super Google-able) question:
“Should I get my baby’s ears pierced?”
First of all—welcome to The Motherhood. Whether you’re team sparkle studs ASAP or team let them decide later, you’re not alone. Baby ear piercing is one of those surprisingly controversial parenting topics that comes up fast after birth... usually right after sleep training and what kind of sunscreen is "the most natural."
So let’s break it down—no shame, no pressure, just some regular mom talk to help you make an informed decision. (Spoiler: there’s no wrong choice here.)
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The Great Baby Ear Piercing Debate
In a recent Instagram poll from The Motherhood community:
47% of moms said YES — pierce those baby ears!
53% said NO — let the child decide later.
A near-even split. So if you’re on the fence, you’re in good company.
Why Some Mamas Say YES to Baby Ear Piercing
It’s so dang cute. Tiny earrings on a tiny human? Heart-melting.
Less painful. Many say babies cry more from the diaper change than the piercing itself.
Healing is easier. Younger babies tend to heal faster and touch their ears less.
You’re in control. You’re already cleaning spit-up and wiping noses—what’s a little earlobe care?
They won’t remember. Like, at all.
Why Some Mamas Say NO to Baby Ear Piercing
Consent matters. Some moms want their child to make the decision when they’re older.
A special memory. For many, ear piercing is a rite of passage—birthday treat, anyone?
Responsibility lesson. Older kids can learn how to care for their new earrings.
Partners said no. Yup—dads had thoughts too. (Some stronger than others.)
Bonus concern: Some moms worried their kids would regret it or dislike earrings later. But good news: holes do close up over time if left unfilled.
So… What’s the Best Age?
Great question—and again, it’s all about your family’s vibe.
Under age 3:
Less touching = less chance of infection.
Babies don’t roll in dirt or share daycare germs (yet).
You do all the cleaning. Swaddle, dab, done.
Over age 5:
The child can choose when and where.
Teachable moment: responsibility, self-care, and dealing with a tiny bit of pain.
It's a memory-making event (hello, post-piercing ice cream).
According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, ear piercing is safe at any age, as long as it’s done in a sterile environment with proper aftercare. They don’t officially recommend a “best” age, but do stress cleanliness and supervision.
Final Thoughts, Mama
Whether your little one rocks sparkly studs at six months or waits until sixth grade, here’s the deal:
There’s no wrong choice—only the one that feels right for you.
Do your research and make the choice that aligns with your parenting style. No shame either way.
Got thoughts? Drop it in the comments—because The Motherhood is better when we share.
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