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Regular Mom's Digest


To My Baby Who Healed My Birth Trauma
Birth trauma is real. And yet, so many women feel ashamed for saying those words out loud. The emotional, physical, and mental gymnastics that birth demands are almost impossible to explain to someone who hasn’t experienced it. Birth trauma; emotional, physical, or psychological, affects more women than we openly acknowledge. Too often, it’s met with phrases like: “At least you have a healthy baby.” Yes. Of course that matters. Of course I am grateful. But that truth should
Stevie.
Dec 14, 20254 min read


Why Moms Become the Default Parent (And How Dads Can Step Up)
Let’s just say it : in most households, one parent becomes the default parent. And spoiler alert, it’s usually the mom. (This is not a man-hating post. Keep reading!) The default parent is the one who magically knows everything: doctor’s appointments, bedtime routines, swim lessons, registration deadlines, picture day, who needs new shoes, and a thousand other invisible tasks that keep the family running. And here’s the kicker: you carry all of this so well that people assu
Stevie.
Dec 9, 20253 min read


Who Mothers Mommy?
While I was reading Brain-Body Parenting by Mona Delahooke, I came across the question: “ Who mothers mommy?”* This simple sentence sent me on a reflective spiral. It’s one of those truths that sits quietly under the surface of motherhood, and once someone names it, you can’t un-hear it. So I ask again, Who does mother mommy? Women are raised (socially, culturally, generationally) that as a mother you must accept martyrdom as part of the role. We’re fed the idea that a “goo
Stevie.
Nov 19, 20253 min read


The Best Season for Having a Baby and Postpartum: Wisdom from The Motherhood
Everyone loves to talk about the “perfect timing” for a baby. I asked The Motherhood to weigh in (the truest wisdom keepers!) . Here’s how the votes landed: Spring — 50% Winter — 27% Fall — 18% Summer — 5% Let’s break down the perks and pain points of each: Spring (The Fan Favourite) Pros: Longer daylight = a mental health boost when you’re up at all hours Easy stroller walks without extreme cold or heat Babies can wear normal clothing, not 42 layers Cons: Allergy season + ne
Stevie.
Oct 27, 20252 min read


The Supplement Scam: Why Women Don’t Need to “Do It All”
Is it just me, or are women constantly drowning in ads for vitamins and supplements that promise us the impossible? We’re told to be...
Stevie.
Sep 17, 20253 min read


Why All Births Are Natural: Reframing the Way We Talk About Childbirth
It’s time we stop using the term “natural birth” to refer only to unmedicated, vaginal deliveries. Because let’s be honest, every birth...
Stevie.
Jul 26, 20252 min read


14 Thoughtful Gift Ideas for New Moms from Those Who’ve Experienced Postpartum Life
Let’s be real: the best gift you can give a new mom is anything that makes her life easier. The newborn stage is beautiful, but it’s also...
Stevie.
Jul 23, 20252 min read


Should You Pierce Your Baby’s Ears? A No-Judgment Guide for Moms
If you're here, you're probably asking the age-old (and super Google-able) question: “Should I get my baby’s ears pierced?” First of...
Stevie.
Jul 15, 20252 min read


The Regular Mom's Guide to the Best Baby Books
Looking for the best baby books to build your child’s library? You’re in the right place! I asked The Motherhood for their favorite baby...
Stevie.
Jun 12, 20254 min read


How Many Kids Is the "Right" Amount? Let’s Talk About It.
I recently came across a stat that stopped me mid-scroll. It showed the average number of kids per family over the years: 👶 1950s: 5...
Stevie.
May 30, 20252 min read


Real Pregnancy Advice from a Midwife Who’s Expecting: What New Moms Need to Know About Birth, Vaccines & Mental Health
If you're navigating pregnancy or preparing for motherhood, chances are you've Googled everything from "Do I need a birth plan?" to "What...
Stevie.
May 7, 20256 min read


Baby’s First Birthday: Should You Go Big or Keep It Simple?
The first birthday. Can you believe it? You made it through one whole year of parenting! Sleepless nights, teething, growth spurts, first...
Stevie.
Apr 29, 20254 min read


Pregnancy and Birth: Stats, Stories, and Everything You Need to Know About Labor and Delivery
Pregnancy and birth are as unique as each woman’s journey. Every experience is different, and that’s part of what makes motherhood so...
Stevie.
Mar 17, 20257 min read


The Resilience of a Mother: Kate’s IVF Journey
Motherhood is a path full of unexpected twists, and for Kate, her journey to becoming a mom was nothing like she imagined. Kate never...
Stevie.
Mar 13, 20256 min read


The Motherhood's Ultimate Guide To Transitioning From Crib To Toddler Bed
So, you’ve decided it’s time to move your little one out of the crib and into a toddler bed? Before you start Googling “how to transition...
Stevie.
Mar 3, 20254 min read


How to Survive a Trip Without Your Kids (Spoiler: The Anticipation is Way Worse!
I did it! I went on a trip without my kids and only cried a handful of times (mostly at the end, okay, I’m not perfect). I was gone for...
Stevie.
Feb 21, 20252 min read


"Is It Mom Guilt, Ungratefulness, or Is It Just Me?"
I’m about to go to New York for work. I should be excited, right? It's an incredible opportunity, something many people would jump at....
Stevie.
Feb 7, 20252 min read


The Unspoken Truth About Motherhood: You Can Never “Win”
Motherhood is like a rollercoaster ride that you didn’t sign up for, except there’s no seat belt, no map, and you’re pretty sure the...
Stevie.
Feb 4, 20253 min read


Toddler Nightmares: Causes, Tips, and How to Help Your Child Sleep Better
As a mom, there’s nothing more heartbreaking than hearing your toddler wake up in the middle of the night, crying out in fear from a...
Stevie.
Jan 31, 20253 min read


Late-Night Musings: How Becoming a Mom Changes EVERYTHING (Even My View of Saturday Night)
It was 11 PM on a Saturday night —pitch dark, quiet, and yet, I found myself driving my teething, cranky toddler around the...
Stevie.
Jan 20, 20253 min read
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