The Motherhood's Ultimate Guide To Transitioning From Crib To Toddler Bed

So, you’ve decided it’s time to move your little one out of the crib and into a toddler bed? Before you start Googling “how to transition a child from crib to bed,” let’s pause for a moment. As moms, we’ve all been there, feeling the pressure to make the switch as soon as our kids reach a certain age. But here's the truth: If it ain’t broke, don’t fix it!

Many moms in The Motherhood shared that they made the transition too early and wished they had waited a bit longer. They felt like their child should be in a toddler bed by a certain age. But why? What’s the rush? If your child isn’t climbing out of their crib or complaining that they’re too cramped, then why mess with a good thing? The crib is secure, they’re safe, and there’s no strict “age” for when they have to leave it. It’ll happen when the time is right—usually when they’re too big or when they ask for a change.

When Should You Transition?

So, when is the right time to make the switch? For many of the mothers is The Motherhood, it happens between 2.5 and 3 years old. But honestly, it depends on the child. We waited until our daughter was 3.5 years old, and it worked out great—she was the one who asked for a big-kid bed, which made the transition smooth. 

That being said, there are some general trends. Many mothers who co-slept with their children or chose not to sleep train found that the transition happened a bit earlier—often around 18 months to 2 years old. These children seemed ready to make the switch to a toddler bed at a younger age compared to those who followed more traditional sleep training methods.

On the other hand, parents who sleep-trained their kids or didn’t co-sleep generally found that the ideal time for a toddler to move to a bed was around 3 years or older. The sleep training and more independent sleeping habits made it easier for these children to adapt to the new setup without as much resistance. 

Tips for a Smooth Transition

Now that you know when to make the move, let’s talk about some practical tips to help make the process smoother (and less chaotic!).

1. Safety First!

   When you transition your child to a bed, make sure the room is child-proofed. If they’re now able to get out of bed at will, you don’t want them getting into any trouble. Consider installing a baby gate at the door or even locking the door (if it’s safe to do so). This prevents them from wandering around the house in the middle of the night.

   
   

2. Try a Bed Rail

   If you’re worried about your toddler rolling out of bed, a bed rail can be a game-changer. It gives you peace of mind while your little one adjusts to their new sleeping situation. Or alternatively, choose a floor bed so they will roll right off safely.

   
   

3. Be Prepared for Some Sleep Struggles

   When transitioning to a toddler bed, it’s normal for there to be some sleep struggles as your child adjusts. You might find that your toddler’s sleeping positions get a little wilder than before, with them tossing and turning more than usual. It’s common for them to end up on the floor or in odd sleeping positions as they figure out their new space. This is just part of the process, and it usually gets better with time as they become more comfortable in their bed. Be prepared for a few middle-of-the-night wake-ups or requests to be tucked back in, but stay consistent and patient—it’s all part of the learning curve!

   
   

4. Skip the Toddler Bed and Go Big

   A lot of moms recommend skipping the toddler bed and going straight to a twin or full-sized bed. Why go through the hassle of upgrading them twice? We decided to go straight to a twin bed, and it worked like a charm. Plus, they can grow into it for years to come. More bang for your buck!

   
   

5. Create a Sleep Routine

   Don’t underestimate the power of a bedtime routine. Whether it’s reading a book, snuggling, or singing a lullaby, sticking to a consistent routine helps signal to your child that it’s time to settle down. And trust me, it makes those “I’m not sleepy!” moments a little easier to manage.

   
   

6. Consider the Montessori Floor Bed (But Be Careful!) 

   Montessori-style floor beds are all the rage, and they do look adorable—especially the ones shaped like little houses! However, we learned the hard way that the low bars on these beds can be a head-hitting hazard. After a few accidental bumps, we ended up selling it and choosing a more traditional bed. Still, if you go the Montessori route, just be cautious and make sure the edges are safe.

   
   

The Final Word

At the end of the day, transitioning from a crib to a bed is a personal choice—and there’s no rush. If your toddler is still content in their crib, let them enjoy it for a little longer. The change will come naturally when they’re ready. Whether it’s a smooth transition or a few funny moments along the way just know that it will all work out in the end.

So, go ahead—take your time, enjoy the process, and remember: If it ain’t broke, don’t fix it!